About HushAffair

HushAffair is a small, independently run dating site for married, attached and single adults who want to meet people discreetly. The site has been online since 2006 and moved to its current platform in 2020. It is operated from Canada by a single owner, not by a dating network or a marketing company.

Who it is for

Members are married or attached people looking for a private connection, singles who prefer to date anonymously, and couples. Most members are in the United States and Canada. Local forum threads by city and state help members find people near them.

How privacy works here

• No real name is required. You choose a username and reveal what you want, when you want.
• Member profiles, photos and albums are blocked from Google and other search engines. Only blog posts and forum threads that members choose to publish are indexed.
• Photos can be kept private and shared only with people you approve.
• We do not sell or share member data with third parties. Payments are processed by the payment provider; card details never touch our servers.
• Your account can be deleted by you at any time.

Pricing

Joining, browsing and creating a profile are free. Full messaging is a single membership fee with no credits and no per-message charges. Current prices (September 2026, USD):

• 2 months – $10
• 4 months – $15
• 6 months – $20

Membership does not renew automatically unless you choose that option.

Contact

Questions about your account, privacy or billing? Use the contact form. Messages are read by the site owner and answered by email, usually within a day.

Create a free account or read member blogs and the forum first.